In this case you owe no explanation and have every facet of "right" in your favor.While you may pi_ her off, It is better to have a pi_ off daughter, then a memory. You have every right in the world to monitor what your personal phone is being used for and the content that is going through your own phone. But as I read it, this is your own phone. It would be one issue to go into her room and rummage around and take her phone out at nite and be snooping around her message history. Personally, my opiniomn is she is using your your phone. While you didnt come to a Cell Phone Forum for Child Parenting Advice, like any Forum you got more then you asked for. Obviously you have identified a situation, but now its important to handle it properly. Please never think "Not my child" or "can't happen here" It can be and it does. And if Jails not bad enough, as a local couple are doing just this weekend, arranging a funeral could be in your future. You can become a hard nosed concernced parent now, or bailing her out ( or visting her) of jail later. What I hear about (just the situations, Moms good on Privacy even with her own Son ) from the Grade School Level to the High School Levels, equates to one thing. Her job is to solely handle the logistics surrounding the disciplining of students including ( and mostly) the scheduling and coordinationg of Expulsion HEarings.
My Mom works for the Local School Board and is the Assistant to the Deputy Superintendant. I have to second all of the hard line responses.
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*I am not telling you how to raise your kid, nor should what I say be taken as fact, just giving an honest opinion from being mostly raised by my grandmother who didn't put up with childish cr*p.* Goodluck They will also through out the "respect my privacy" bullsh*t.
Besides, spying on them will only worsen the outcome when you confront them. Sure your kid my be upset or say "i hate " but they will realize you are only trying to help them. Take control of the situation by removing the medium that is causing the problem in the first place.the cell phone. To the OP.just remember, being a parent and being a friend to your kid are 2 different things.
Take some control, be a parent, and control your children. All your really doing is letting her dictate what will and will not happen. Take away the phone completely and lock her life down. Your her parents, which means that you have the control, what you are doing is allowing your daughter to have control. If all we can get are the usage records, can we get records from beyond the year that's online? Whats the real story w/ t-mobile? can we get the actual messages? what should we be asking for when we get our records subpoenaed? do you have any suggestions? Some people say they aren't stored due to privacy reasons & other people say they are archived for 18 months. there is 1 years worth online.Ĭan we get the actual texts? I searched and find conflicting information. We were told that we'd have to have the records subpoenaed (which we have no problem doing) but they said all we will get are the usage records which we already have from logging into their website. We contacted T-Mobile to try and get a transcript of the previous texts. we've already decided that this invasion of privacy is worth it to us. please don't judge us on whether it's right to do or not. We plan on setting up an app that stores the text messages locally for the future so we can spy on her a little and see who shes talking to & what they are saying. She borrows my wifes G1 phone from time to time and we've noticed lots of texts messages to numbers we don't know which have made us suspicious. She's fallen into a bad crowd and you get the idea. My wife & I are worried about our daughter.
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